Should I call off my wedding?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 121
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1225 posts
Bumble bee

jhempstead :  Hi Bee,  

I wasn’t involved in the thread initially but, upon reading your update, I think you made the right choice.  I’m really sorry that you’ve had to go through that but you are truly blessed to have the kind of loving and supportive family that’s needed in situations like this.  It’s really a shame that your ex’s parents are such ugly people.  They should be ashamed of themselves!  Unfortunately, they are the kind of people that will never acknowledge any wrongdoing and will sit on their high horses until they die. You’re so much better off without them!

Post # 122
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11944 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

jhempstead :  I’m so sorry, but it is probably for the best. The entire dynamic was toxic. Are you considering yourselves broken up for good? 

Though mistakes were made all around, there would have been many ongoing battles with the kind of in laws who would ever behave this way, whatever they thought were their justifications, and with an ex Fiance who never prioritized you or stood up to them.

I’m surprised the parents aren’t talking to Fiance since it would seem to any rational observer that this is exactly what they wanted. Are you sure it’s not that ex Fiance is no longer talking to them? 

Post # 123
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260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

I’m sorry but I could not get past the fact that your parents are paying $65,000 and his parents are paying $45,000!! You’re wedding for roughly 150-170 people is going to cost both sets of parents $110,000 combined!!!!!!! And you are complaining that both parents (more so his) are too involved in your planning??? Are you even paying for anything?? like holy cow that is a LOT of money for a wedding!!! That’s more than most peoples life’s savings….I’d chose your battles on this one, you’re coming off as really spoiled.

Post # 125
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260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

desertgypsy :  Sorry i read her original post then went straight to comment…

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