Should I call this wedding off?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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1247 posts
Bumble bee

Very sad for you that this is happening. But as others have voiced – you need to divorce and move on. It does not sound like this will get better.  These behaviours are the known abuse red flags. Your parents obviously know what happened now so they can hopefully be supportive as well. Please be kind to yourself and your daughter. 

Post # 62
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63 posts
Worker bee

He physically assaulted you. I don’t even know why we’re talking about the money. Money means nothing if you and your daughter aren’t safe. Also, the fact that your neighbors saw is embarrassing but really good for a case against him. Bad cops get away with this all the time, press charges and get a restraining order.

im so sorry you’re going through this Bee, I hope you’re somewhere safe.

Post # 63
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26 posts
Newbee

Yes you need to leave. You have a daugther and whatever you do as a mom reflects on her. I got divorced from my 1st husband when my daugther was five and was always very careful on showing her how I wanted and needed to be treated by a man and what is acceptable or not. She is now almost 20 years old and she told me that if anything she learned that we can be strong independant and there is so much +++ to be in a loving relationship but to never settle. If anything think of your daugther….good luck!

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