- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
I need some advice. My mom and her two sisters (my aunts) have always had a rocky relationship. Aunt1 is my godmother and Aunt2’s husband is my godfather. They both live out of the country. They’re all invited to the wedding. I’ve sent my godparents emails in the past few months letting them know how things were going with wedding planning to try to smooth things over and make them feel included in my wedding. I’ve never gotten a response. I sent them an email yesterday asking them if they could let me know by July 5th if they’re coming to the wedding (the original RSVP date was June 3rd). I don’t expect a response from that either. They are the type of people that would show up without telling you they’re coming OR will tell you last minute (as in a couple of days before) that they’re attending. I’m in the middle of making the seating arrangement and placecards. Should I include them in the seating arrangement with the risk that they don’t show up and then have a partially empty table….or should I not include them in the seating arrangement with the risk that they do show up and don’t have anywhere to sit and then are offended by that?