- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2016
I have this friend and we’ll call her “B”. She and I are long time friends, back in high school beginning of grade 8. She’s always complaining that we never spend time together, so I’ve put in 100% of my effort in making sure that we do see each other. But it’s an ongoing battle with her. I will call and text her, she answers here and there and always seems gung ho about hanging out, but she never follows through. She will make plans, and then forget she made them or bail. I’ve called her out on her crap, but her excuse is that she’s busy with work. However, her facebook says otherwise with all the photos of her partying. She only wants to hang out when it’s convenient for her, when I call her out on her BS she starts saying she’ll put more effort in, but no change. Not to mention she slept with my ex boyfriend while I was still with him and her excuse was we were on a break which is why she thought it was ok. I forgave her a couple years later because I did not want to hold grudges. I already know that I don’t need someone like this in my life, but because we go way back, I’m just wondering if I should still keep in touch with her. Thoughts?