(Closed) Should I drop uncooperative family-member bridesmaids?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

You don’t have to invite your sisters out of obligation, but if they can’t afford it,  not sure what you expect from them?

Post # 4
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you don’t want them to be in your wedding, you need to talk to them. We can’t make this decision for you.

Good luck.

Post # 5
410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Maybe you can talk to your sisters and give them an out. If they truly are that disinterested in participating, and broke, they may be relieved. Without knowing all the other family dynamics and emotions behind this it’s hard to say what you should do. Are you close with your sisters? What would your parents say, would they support this, or will it cause major drama?

Ultimately it is your wedding and you should be happy and have people around you that are supporting you, not stressing you out. But it is one day, and you have the rest of your life after to deal with your family, so pick your battles is my caution.

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