(Closed) Should I even go to this wedding?!!

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I go to the wedding

    go alone

    go and bring my boyfriend along

    don't go

  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I wouldn’t go, nor would I send a gift.

    Post # 18
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I would be offended as well.  I wouldn’t go at all, if it were me.  I’d probably send a card congratulating them, but that’s it.

    Post # 19
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    This sounds like what one of my friends did. She eloped then her parents prepared a wedding for her here.

    I got a FB invite for a wedding… I was honestly surprised because I’ve never heard anyone doing that before. Needless to say, I’m the type of person that doesn’t respond to FB messages immediately so I forgot about it until 1 week before the wedding. I had planned to RSVP earlier, but I forgot and I didn’t think it was right to RSVP that late so I didn’t. I also felt weird saying “Sorry I forgot about your wedding because I only got a FB invite, but congrats” so I haven’t really talked to her since then. Although it’s not like I talked to her much before.

    If you feel like an afterthought then don’t go. Just use my excuse if they ask 🙂 It’s harder to remember when you don’t have a physical thing to look at that lays around your house.

    Post # 20
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    If you aren’t really friends, don’t go. There’s no point and no one deserves to be treated like an after-thought.

    Post # 21
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I wouldn’t go. She doesn’t sound like a true friend if she’s so quick to drop everyone.

    Post # 22
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I wouldn’t bother to go; I’m sorry you wasted time and money on the first wedding. I wouldn’t invest in the next especially if she FB chatted you the invite.

    By The Way – is it me or has Facebook officially taken over? I got an invite to something on FB and totally forgot about it too. I get on FB once in awhile so by the time I went back on the event had passed and I had no desire to explain myself.

    Post # 23
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

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    @Mrs. Meowerson:  I agree with this person. This bride is a POC. Sorry. 

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