(Closed) Should I feel badly about this?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1565 posts
Bumble bee

I know what you mean. I’ve felt this way too when contacting unresponsive vendors. Honestly, you shouldn’t feel bad about it – it’s their responsibility to get back to you sooner. 

Post # 4
157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Aw, don’t feel bad!  Brides have every right to want to get things in order ahead of time and if this guy is any kind of professional, I’m sure he understood your concern.  So if he sounded genuinely apologetic, shrug it off, give him another 2 weeks to sort himself out, then ping him again.  😉

Post # 5
2195 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

You’re too nice.  Like GirlWithaRing said, it’s his job to be in contact with you.  Honestly, there is no excuse.  I have gotten nearly immediate responses from some of the busiest vendors in NYC–and many of them only had one person fielding email, phone calls, etc.  Everybody falls behind occasionally, but it’s your right to know what’s up with a service you’ve paid for.  It’s not like you’ve been harassing him needlessly.

Post # 6
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You were just taking care of business. You were not being a pest. Don’t feel bad.

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