(Closed) Should I feel disappointed since my GF didn't get me anything for my Birthday?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I would be disappointed, have you confronted her? Said you know my bday was yesterday and not Tuesday, or whatever?  ask if she sent a card and suggest maybe it was lost in the mail.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

jeff111:  You seem more invested in this relationship than she does. She seems to be taking you for granted.

I don’t know what the secret was but that could have a huge bearing on her feelings towards you. I assume it was personal therefore she may well be feeling vulnerable around you now. 

I’d have a frank talk with her and see what she really feels for you. This could go either way. But don’t stay with her if you think she’s just using you. You sound like a lovely man and you deserve to be treated well. Good luck and take care.

Post # 5
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1610 posts
Bumble bee

jeff111:  I would be mega upset as well. Long distance or no, doesn’t mean she couldn’t have put the effort in even if she didn’t have a lot of money.

i would talk to her about it. See what she has to say about it and explain how you feel from it.

Post # 7
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2325 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

She’s just not that into you

Post # 8
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1233 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This would make me feel sad too, you should definitely correct her on the date otherwise if you stay together she’ll find out later and feel dumb.

she might still be upset/disappointed about the rough patch you went through. While she shouldn’t have lied to you , you shouldn’t have asked about her past experiences, it’s None of your business (as long ad there are no kids or Save-The-Date Cards etc).

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I don’t know you but it sounds like you’re being taken advantage of

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

jeff111:  She’s trying to get her period back. Uh, what? And what’s that got to do with money?

Tbh it does not sound like you’re on the same page AT ALL.

Post # 13
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1869 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I second questioning getting her period back and it having anything to do with money? 

On another note, did she transfer your money back when she decided she could afford her own rent? 

She sounds…not nice. And she’s using you. 

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