(Closed) Should I feel guilty about this?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Personally, I would never grind up against a guy whether is is gay or not but if you are just dancing, there isn’t anything to be guilty about.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Don’t worry about it. Your fiancee trusts you, he trusts your friend, and your friend is gay. You wouldn’t have even thought about it unless your other friend brought it up, right? So no, don’t feel guilty, there’s nothing to feel guilty about!

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I don’t think it’s anything to feel guilty over – I mean, like you’ve said, none of the three of you mean anything/interpret anything wrong with it. I equate it to dancing with a girl friend, honestly. My Fiance wouldn’t care either. I think it’s alright.

Post # 6
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382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Dancing is not sex. Whether you’re dancing with a girl or a guy, gay or straight, dancing is still just dancing. Sure some types of dancing can practically look like sex with clothes on, and even the most chaste of dances can be more intimate than sex if you’re dancing with the right person in the right frame of mind. In this case, though, I assume you were just having fun. Dancing is about having fun. If you enjoyed yourself and your partner has no problem with it, there’s no reason for you to feel bad about it at all.

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