(Closed) Should I feel guilty?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Hell no!!! You’re supposed to love it, it’s yours forever and a symbol of your new life πŸ™‚

Post # 4
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Of course not…unless of course you stole them and/or murdered someone for them.

Post # 6
1750 posts
Buzzing bee

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: You are a human being and its inevitable that you will make a mistake and loose something. We all make mistakes, its life.

Post # 7
158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think everyone on the Bee knows how much you LOVED your old set.  I think it is totally OK to love your new set just as much.

And I want to say you didn’t stupidly lose them.  It was an honest, unfortunate mistake.  Please don’t be so hard on yourself about it.

Post # 8
3776 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

We are all just really happy for you that you have something on your hand again.  We all make mistakes.  Believe me, I just made one two days ago that is going to cost me about $600.00.  You have to let it go or it will make you feel awful.

Post # 10
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

What for?!?! You should absolutely love them, it doesn’t mean you don’t love your previous ones anymore. It’s a new beginning for you and you DID NOT stupidly lost them!!! πŸ™‚

Post # 11
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Heck no!

Every person and thing has its place in our lives at all the right times. You loved those rings and we know it and can proove it through many posts of adoration. As married women, how could we not love precious stones and metals that represent our eternal love for each other? Getting a new set is simply a completely new way of confirming that!


Post # 13
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

No way! We all know how you felt for the old set, but there is nothing you can do now, and you deserve to enjoy the new set!! Don’t beat yourself up. They were lost due to an honest mistake and could’ve happened to any of us that way. Personally, I LOVE seeing the new set, so keep it coming!! Happy New Year!!

Post # 16
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Absolutely not!  It’s not like you purposely got rid of your old set just so you could get a new one!  And I’d consider it a small blessing that you love your new set so much – otherwise you’d just be dwelling on your old set.  πŸ™‚

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