Should I feel hurt?

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 31
10725 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

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katelynn92 : 

Well I hope it works out OP, I can see it is getting to  you

Unsolicited advice I know but when you do  confront her with it  I’d  try  for curiousity rather than open pain . I mean yes, tell  her you were hurt but try to keep it  relatively unemotional and thus maybe save yourself from a potentially embarassing scene . 

Post # 32
14179 posts
Honey Beekeeper

If you do say something to her I would not focus on the disappontment of not being asked to be a bridesmaid, but on the teasing promise of some ridiculous surprise role. I’d stress that it is not the role you care about at all, as much as it hurt to be led on that way.

The way she handled things was painful, and made you feel as you were considered for a consolation prize and ultimately turned down. 

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