Post # 31
Well I hope it works out OP, I can see it is getting to you
Unsolicited advice I know but when you do confront her with it I’d try for curiousity rather than open pain . I mean yes, tell her you were hurt but try to keep it relatively unemotional and thus maybe save yourself from a potentially embarassing scene .
Post # 32
If you do say something to her I would not focus on the disappontment of not being asked to be a bridesmaid, but on the teasing promise of some ridiculous surprise role. I’d stress that it is not the role you care about at all, as much as it hurt to be led on that way.
The way she handled things was painful, and made you feel as you were considered for a consolation prize and ultimately turned down.