(Closed) Should I feel this guilty (NWR)

posted 8 years ago in College
Post # 3
Member
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wouldn’t worry about it.  That’s a lot of events all at once (shower, wedding, graduation)!  Also, you didn’t really know about the event in advance.

Post # 4
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh my gosh, get rid of that guilt pronto!  I’m sure she wasn’t expecting anything from you other than for you to come and have a good time.  She must appreciate what you did just a short time ago, that was more than generous.  You can’t over extend yourself, you can only do what you can do.  Don’t worry about a thing.  I just hope the brownies were good πŸ™‚

Post # 5
Member
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t think you should worry about it.  You went to the get-together to celebrate her graduation.  That should be all that’s expected, not an extravagant gift.

Post # 6
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Don’t feel guilty. I doubt she was expecting a gift. She probably just wanted to celebrate with friends! πŸ™‚

Post # 7
Member
4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wouldn’t feel guilty at all. I have never bought a graduation gift for anyone, and I didn’t receive any! I am sure she wasn’t expecting gifts, and the card was a nice gesture πŸ™‚

Post # 8
Member
536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You are fine!  I’m sure she didn’t expect anything since you just spent mega bucks on her shower!  Don’t feel guilty!  You are good πŸ™‚

Post # 9
Member
677 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ditch the guilt! You have nothing to feel guilty for – you were there to celebrate with her and were able to pull together a dish and a card at the last minute! Heck, you deserve some kudos for it!

Post # 10
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I wouldn’t feel guilty!  You just gave her a present for her wedding, people don’t need both especially not from friends!

Post # 11
Member
2703 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i think you are a most generous person and should not feel guilty! i am sure your friend appreciated everything, including the graduation brownies and card!! it’s prolly just bothering you personally cuz you are a “giver” πŸ™‚

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