(Closed) should i fire her

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Absolutely do not “fire” her.  It sucks she cancelled but that isn’t a near good enough reason to remove her from your bridal party.

 

Post # 4
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1920 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Absoloutely not. She backed out once, give her a pass.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Well either way I’m not sure you can “fire” her because she dosen’t work for you. If you don’t want her in the wedding party then don’t have her, although it might cause issues with your in law so I would give her one more shot.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

looks like you are looking for a reason to boot her.  maybe don’t do wedding errands with her in the future, but i certainly wouldn’t kick her out.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Just don’t ask her to do errands with you in the future. If she asks why, you can tell her that you have a lot of things to get done and don’t want to worry about her canceling. I don’t think it’s worth the future drama it’s going to cause to “boot” her from the wedding.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

do you have other BM’s and if yes did they go venue & dress shopping with you?

you cant “fire” someone you dont employ and as this is family i think you need to suck it up and smile as no good will come from kicking her out of the wedding

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