(Closed) Should I get my BM’s more gifts?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
255 posts
Helper bee

That is an awesome and beautiful gift!

I wouldn’t worry – maybe just write them all a lovely card about how they each individually mean to you?


Post # 4
5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think that’s a gorgeous AND timeless gift…. put with a nice personal card/note and I think you’re good!…. no.. I KNOW you’re good 😉

Post # 5
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think that is wonderful!!! Mostly bridesmaids reveive “fake” jewelery as their gift, I did in all the weddings I was in. I decided to pay for my Bridesmaids dresses, shoes, and purses as their gift. I also got then fake pearl earrings and a bracelet to wear the day of. To be honest most of my Bridesmaids haven’t done anything to “help” with the wedding. I want to say “thank you” but feel I can’t say what a “great” bridesmaid they were It has been a little dissapointing. Is this wrong for me to feel this way?

Post # 7
1254 posts
Bumble bee

That’s a beautiful necklace and I think your bridesmaids will appreciate more the kind words/note that accompany the necklace than the extra stuff you are thinking of adding to their gift.

Post # 8
721 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think that is PLENTY!  It’s a gorgeous necklace and I’m sure they’ll love it. Include a heartfelt card and you’re all set.  Your wedding is coming up so soon!

Post # 9
1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

That is more than enough!! Some people get their BM’s lots of smaller gifts, some get one nicer gift…I think yours is a beautiful present (I’d love to be the recipient) and that’s plenty of money spent on your bridesmaid’s as a thank you gift!

Post # 10
1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think what you got them is more than enough, and I know they’ll appreciate it!  Don’t worry about getting them anything else!

Post # 11
4547 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think that’s a beautiful necklace and I wouldn’t worry about getting anything else. It’s all about what’s in your budget. I would have loved to get my BM’s more, but we’re paying for most of the wedding ourselves. I got mine each a clutch with their initals on it and pearl necklaces and earrings for the wedding.

Post # 12
187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would LOVE to get that as others have said. And as you said you spent time picking it out. Just a touching not is always appreciated!

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