(Closed) Should I go ahead with the plans anyway?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If the others are on board, I’d keep the lunch date. Then I’d tell L, “Okay, that’s fine. But how about you & I get together on Sep 15th (or whatever date after the lunch meeting) to go over things and let you know what’s going on (or expected)”.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No, I don’t think so. We had to do it that way w/ one of my girls & she understood. You can’t plan your days around others. But if she’s the type to be wishy-washy just tell her, “Okay, lets get together @ Mimi’s @ 7:00pm on Tuesday the 28th to talk about plans”, that way you’re setting a firm tone.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Is it really that important to have a lunch? All of my bridesmaids are in different cities, so we keep completely in touch via email. At least once a month I send out a “this is what’s going on right now” kind of email, and they reply as necessary. Sometimes people just have such oddball schedules that getting everyone together at the same time is kind of impossible.

Or, what about a Sunday lunch? People are often less busy on Sundays…

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Could you do a lunch during the week, assuming that works with L’s evening work schedule? I know that weekends (Saturdays in particular) get really busy for folks.

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