(Closed) Should I go? An ex issue.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would go and immediately go up to her to wish her a happy birthday and say something to the effect of “Jonny invited me to come, I hope that is OK”. Be upfront, polite and sincere and hopefully there will be no issues. 

Post # 4
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I would separate the two things – the birthday and the Future Mother-In-Law hanging out with her.

1. I probably wouldn’t go to her birthday.

2. Your Fiance needs to talk to his mother about her hanging out with his ex. That is not ok. The blame here shouldn’t be placed on the ex but the Future Mother-In-Law. To use a cheating analogy, the Future Mother-In-Law is the one that did the bad thing, the ex is just the other woman. 

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