Post # 31
There was a point in my last relationship for a week or two where I was just numb. Might have been a mix of PMS and who knows what else but I felt nothing for my boyfriend. After a week or two I was crazy about him again. Sometimes that just happens. I’d hesitate to tell you to leave..if I were you, I’d personally wait it out a bit. Don’t do any wedding planning and just feel things out. If the connection doesn’t come back and you don’t feel comfortable then you’ll know what to do. I wouldn’t make a rash decision right now.
Post # 32
coldfeet22 : 10 years ago I was engaged to a wonderful man. Had everything you described of your guy. I was with him for 3 years. I had a nagging feeling this wasn’t right about 11 months out from the wedding. I shared my feelings and we did a soft break from each other. After a month I realized I wasn’t ready and he wasn’t my forever and I called it off. Fast forward 10 years, he’s happily married and I’m engaged to a man that drives me crazy at times and can be boring at times but I want to grow old with him. I listened to my gut and have no regrets.
I’m late to this post. What did you decide?