(Closed) Should I go to my ex’s funeral? (the biological father of my two kids)

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you go to your ex's funeral? (Your 2 kids biological father)

    just you go

    Dont go

    You and the kids should go

    Toss of a coin; too hard of a question

  • Post # 62
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    Busy bee

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    @mtbutterflyrose:  So happy everything worked out for you!  You are an amazing woman – this must have been such a difficult decision.

    Post # 63
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    Busy bee

    I would not go, personally. Maybe meet with his family at a later time, or after the funeral, like other PP said.

    If you want to go, then you can go. But I would not bring the kids. Even when my own grandmother died (I was 8 and loved her very much, she basically raised me until then) I did not get to go to the funeral. It might be ok for the 14 year old, but it’s not going to be ok for the 9 year old. Funerals are a bit too much for kids to really understand, and the 14 year old has already said she doesn’t want to go.

    Post # 64
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think if the kids want to go, you should at least consider going for their sake, if you think it’s something you can emotionally handle. I think they would certainly understand if it’s not something you can do (or, at least I hope they would understand).

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