(Closed) Should I go to my friend's bachelorette? (long)

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I go?
    Suck it up and GO : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Make an excuse and skip it. : (104 votes)
    97 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3227 posts
    Sugar bee

    You shouldn’t put yourself through all that. Just make an excuse and not go.

    Post # 4
    Member
    5786 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    This feels like a no brainer to me. Don’t go.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    nope I’d consider this .. a past friend.  Seriously there are some people you stay in touch with, but mostly that whole group changes.  You aren’t supposed to be friends with everyone both your whole lives.

    I would make sure you RSVP no pronto

    Post # 6
    Member
    522 posts
    Busy bee

    Honestly, it seems like she treated you shabbily. You tried to attend a party she held over the summer only to find out that there was no more room for you?! She only emails you when she has a favor to ask? No.

    If I were you I would ask myself what I hope to get out of this. Do you want to rekindle a friendship with this girl? Or are you going because….well you feel obligated? If it’s because you feel obligated and you truly have no interest in being her friend then I’d do you both a favor and reply that you can’t.

    Post # 7
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    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    oh your paragraphs showed .. just not to the OP’s .. it’s been a glitch for .. like two weeks now?

    Post # 8
    Member
    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    I didn’t vote because I wouldn’t actually make an excuse. I would just RSVP that I am not attending and send my wishes for them to have a great time.

    Post # 9
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    1342 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @MrsTVLover:  Life is too short.  Don’t go.

    Post # 10
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    1684 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Why on earth would you go? 

    You are seriously way too nice.  Take all that money you would have spent on her and get a massage and your nails done!  Don’t you dare go to that wedding either!

    Post # 11
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    335 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Don’t go. I would guess if she only contacts you for favors she either put you on the invite list to  get a present or her bms invited you by mistake.  

    Post # 12
    Member
    808 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    No way should you go. All the other things aside, inviting you to a party and then telling you there’s no room for you is INSANE

    Post # 13
    Member
    5242 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    If it were me I would make an excuse and just not go. Why bother putting yourself through a weekend you know you will hate

    Post # 14
    Member
    7649 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I don’t think you should make up an excuse but just say that no, you won’t be coming.

    Post # 15
    Member
    11233 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Oh, girl.

    RSVP no and leave it at that. No excuses. Cut off contact with this bia.

    Post # 16
    Member
    989 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Just say no.

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