(Closed) Should I go to my FSIL bachelorette weekend even if I won’t know anyone?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@loveknows: Do you have the means to go? Is it in a location you want to go?

Has Future Sister-In-Law talked to you at all about it?

I think she might be making an effort to bring you in to the family. It might be a little uncomfortable, but it would be a nice way to start to really get to know her.

Post # 4
722 posts
Busy bee

You should go. It might be fun, and you might make  new friends.  Why not? It is just a weekend.

Post # 5
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would go. I went to a bach party of one of my Fiance friends who i didnt know that well and i actually had a blast and made several new friends.

Post # 6
3613 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

If she invited you and seems sincere, I would make an effort to go. You might find you bond with her even closer than she and your FI. It’s always helpful to keep good relations in the family.

Post # 7
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

There will probably be other girls that don’t know everyone. If you’re able to go, I would try to put in the effort and attend. She is going to be your SIL for the rest of your life…might be good to start that off on the right foot 🙂

I recently attended a bach. party for one of FI’s family members and I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to go but decided to put on a good face and at least pretend to be having a good time and you know what? I survived and it wasn’t that bad!

You’re there to support the bride, just put on a party face 🙂

Post # 8
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m really hoping my FSILs come to my bachelorette, even though they’ll only know each other! Go! 

Post # 9
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Go!!  1 of 2 of my FSILs (they’re both OOT) is going to make it to mine and I am Soooo excited to hang out with her as friends!

Definitely go!  It could bring you closer to being family 🙂

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