(Closed) Should I go with him?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Can’t he go and you just stay where you are until you’re done school? Try the long distance thing?

I don’t see how you could go with him anyways, you’re not going to quit school right?

Post # 4
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3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@FortiesFlare:  Agreed!  Do semi-long distance for a bit. Dont’ quit school!

Post # 5
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1459 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Since you’re studying I’d probably recommend you staying put while he moves. You can go to be with him when you’re done with studying 🙂 

I’ve always been 2 or so hours away from Boyfriend or Best Friend, it’s not amazing but it’s certainly not as bad as it could be 🙂 especially if you can see him at weekends. 

Post # 7
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1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t give up school to move with him. There’s nothing wrong with long distance for a little while until you’re done. 2 hours isn’t very far, you would still see eachother often and can move there when you’re finished. 

Post # 8
Hostess
16195 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I agree with everyone else. How much longer are you in school? My husband and I spent the first four-ish years of our relationship a couple of hours apart. Sure, not ideal, but TOTALLY manageable!

At this point, the pay from the job, as well as the professional opportunity, seem to be more important than the convenience factor, at least for now. Once you’re done with school, you two will likely have to reassess and factor in things like where your family is, etc, and make a new plan from there.

Post # 9
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4429 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@eahop4:  can you transfer schools? you can always find another part time job.

and 2 hours is not that far from your family you can visit on the weekends.

Post # 10
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2638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

Do you live with your Fiance now? How long would you have to live apart until you could finish school and go be with him there? If your concern is leaving your comfort zone near your family, will you ever want to move two hours away or will your Fiance eventually want to look for work back where you are now?

Post # 11
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7649 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

2 hours is not that far from family. I would either move or do LDR

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