(Closed) Should I have her as a bridesmaid?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
Hostess
8706 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

soontobeericab :  i know it is hard. I cut my now ex best friend out of my life about a year ago, we had been friends for 16 years, always there for each other until she changed and ended up being a shitty friend, it took a year of this for me to realise that although we HAD been best friends and she HAD been a great friend at the time, she no longer was and actually it was making me sad, so I cut her out and don’t regret it.

Post # 19
Member
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

soontobeericab :  Take your time in that case! Take her out a few times, see how things go. I wish I’d taken my time now, because trying to fix a messed up bridal party is SO much harder afterwards.

Post # 20
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6766 posts
Busy Beekeeper

soontobeericab :  It seems your wedding is more than a year away? You have some time to see where the relationship goes before you have to make this decision. That said, I wouldn’t include her just because she included you–if you decide to include her do so because she is an important part of your life, including your future. 

Post # 21
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2261 posts
Buzzing bee

I would actually have her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man, a couple months of her being a sucky friend really isn’t that comparable to the years you’ve guys have been friends. This could just be a dry spell. 

Post # 22
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47 posts
Newbee

I think you should be there as her bridemaid after all she is your best friend. Weddind is really a big day of her life. It is really an honor to be asked by your best friend to be her bridesmaid. 

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