Post # 16
soontobeericab : i know it is hard. I cut my now ex best friend out of my life about a year ago, we had been friends for 16 years, always there for each other until she changed and ended up being a shitty friend, it took a year of this for me to realise that although we HAD been best friends and she HAD been a great friend at the time, she no longer was and actually it was making me sad, so I cut her out and don’t regret it.
Post # 17
lilyflowers : I think your last statement is correct. I really don’t know if the friendship is over or not! Maybe she is just dealing with some things in a weird way and in a year things will be back to normal… I feel like either way I could regret my decision and that scares me. All my other bridesmaids I am 100% sure on they have been there for me and have been great friends to me and I know I have a large number of bridesmaids but when these girls have been so good to me for so long I can’t imagine not including them on my big day.
Post # 18
Thank you everyone for all the help. It’s obviously a hard decision I’m going to have to make and I’m just not sure I’m ready to make it 😳
Post # 19
soontobeericab : Take your time in that case! Take her out a few times, see how things go. I wish I’d taken my time now, because trying to fix a messed up bridal party is SO much harder afterwards.
Post # 20
soontobeericab : It seems your wedding is more than a year away? You have some time to see where the relationship goes before you have to make this decision. That said, I wouldn’t include her just because she included you–if you decide to include her do so because she is an important part of your life, including your future.
Post # 21
I would actually have her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man, a couple months of her being a sucky friend really isn’t that comparable to the years you’ve guys have been friends. This could just be a dry spell.
Post # 22
I think you should be there as her bridemaid after all she is your best friend. Weddind is really a big day of her life. It is really an honor to be asked by your best friend to be her bridesmaid.