(Closed) Should I have told her already?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I told my girls all along “When fiance and I get married, your gonna be my bridesmaid” so I don’t think its weird!! 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Haha guilty! I told my Maid/Matron of Honor before I was engaged… but then I officially asked her after the engagement.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

it’s cute! at least she knows !

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

If y’all are such good friends that it’s a for sure thing, I don’t think it’s weird at all!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Haha, most of my bridesmaids knew they would be bridesmaids before I even started dating my fiance!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think most of my girls knew they’d be part of the bridal party.  I never said it flat-out, but there are friendships where you just know who’d be up with you without ever having to say it!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My best friends were sending me pictures of bridesmaid dresses the day after I told them FI and were talking about getting married.  Thats what best friends do, they talk about weddings, the future and how exciting life is.  She is your best friend so I wouldn’t stress about it.

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

My best friend was pretty much all around assumed to be my MoH once I was engaged. Once I entered into a relationship with my husband, we both knew that this was it. She had seen me through my (very serious long term) past relationship and breaking up with him meant that something amazing had come into my life.

So, I think at least she was expecting it!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I think all my girls know or assume they’ll be in the wedding.  My closest college friend and I used to talk about being eachothers bridesmaids all the time, like when we were 19 and both single.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

All of mine new they’d be in the wedding before I got engaged. 

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper

I think with some people, it’s kind of a given. Although, I’d still “officially” ask them at some point, just to make sure everyone knows what going on. I’ve seen some friends go through some friend-messes with misunderstandings about who’s a bridemaid and who isn’t.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

No I haven’t and I haven’t told them yet even though I am engaged, although I’ve implied it.  And I’ve been engaged for 3 months now.  I’m waiting til I officially ask them because I want to make it special.

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

most of mine knew they would be in the wedding waaay before I even got engaged! So no, I don’t think it’s weird 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

They knew before hand.

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