(Closed) Should I invite everyone?…kind of long

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
499 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I wouldn’t invite them if you aren’t close with them anymore.  If the other people in the group are close to you, just tell them up front that so and so aren’t invited, so please don’t discuss the wedding with them.

Post # 4
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wouldn’t make any decisions on your guest list yet until you are further into your planning. You may in theory decide to invite them all then realize later on once money starts coming into play that you would have been better off not inviting them. Don’t say anything to anyone about who is invited and who isn’t yet. Also, a lot of stuff can happen – your wedding is almost a full year away. I would say don’t invite them out of obligation, but I also think you shouldn’t make concrete guest list decisions until you’ve hammered out details like venue, etc.

Post # 5
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I wouldn’t invite them if you don’t truly want you there. And if they didn’t invite you to their wedding they can’t go complaining that they weren’t invited to yours. I agree with sunnydebs, I would tell the other people who will be getting invites that due to budget/space constraints you really had to cut back on the guestlist and unfortunately you couldn’t invite everyone from the old group. That way it doesn’t look like you excluded them for personal reasons even if you did lol. You should only ever have people you really want there on such a special day 🙂

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