(Closed) Should I invite FSIL to my bachelorette party?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

jessmm:  I’m not super close with my SILs either. But I still invite them to everything, even though they never come at least the invite has been sent.

Invite her, if she wants to come she will, who knows, you could end up having a ton of fun.

Post # 19
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Even if you’re not close, she’s still part of your wedding party as a PA… and therefore, should be invited to the party. She can make up her mind if she wants to attend or not.

Post # 20
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2969 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

jessmm:  i totally get it. I didnt have sisters either and its always difficult to step into that role especially when you dont have too much in common. 

Could she make more of an effort as well? Sure, but you cannot control other people’s actions, you can only control your own. Maybe if she sees that youre making an effort to have a relationship with her, she will try to do the same so it wont be so one sided. If not, then at least you genuinely tried.

I stand by my original reply to invite her to the bachelorette party, but have one of your bridesmaids/ maid of honor handle the invite just as she would with the rest of the people that are coming so that way the “activities” can be explained to her the same way and she can feel included. Even if she declines, im sure it will make her feel good that she was added to the list of people to invite.

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 11 months ago by  MissJulianna.
Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d invite her. It’s ultimately up to her if makes time to make it or not.

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