- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
OK, so I am trying to decide whether to invite my BFF from high school or not. We were best friends all throughout high school, and she was the best friend I have ever had, you all know that kind of friend. Anyways, after high school I went to college, got a job, and soon after got engaged and was living with Fiance…She decided not to go to college, or not to settle down at all, so we eventually quit talking. Part of it is because Fiance and her do NOT get along at all, and I think Fiance is glad I don’t talk to her anymore, because there had been some trust issues in the past when I would hang out with her. We talked a few months ago for the first time in a long time, we caught up and it was soo good talking to her. HOwever, I realized that she is still the same person- the wild, crazy, partying girl from high school and i just can’t be that girl anymore. I may seem boring to her, but I work all day, go home and make dinner, do homework and spend the night with my Fiance. Anyways, I ended up telling her that we just weren’t the same anymore and that we didn’t have much in common. She said she understood, but that she would still love to come to our wedding this August. Should I invite her and chance Fiance getting upset about her being there? Or just forget it?