(Closed) Should I invite her?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I invite her?
    Yes, it will make life easier. : (11 votes)
    42 %
    No, it's your wedding. Invite only people you want! : (15 votes)
    58 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2815 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I’m going to say invite her if you have the room.  There will be so many other things going on and so many other people there, you really can just ignore her.  

    Post # 4
    Member
    34 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I would say you should run this by your sister and see what she thinks.  Honestly if your sister supports the decision to not invite her, and since X is a person you really don’t like, there’s no reason to extend the invite to her.  You’re barely even friends at this point.  It’s your wedding day and you shouldn’t have to invite people you dislike. 

    I’m sort of in a similar situation where I’m inviting my entire circle of friends except for one girl because she and I do not get along.  I think it bothers some of them that she won’t be there, but they also know that I really don’t like her so no one has really said anything about it to me.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1276 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think a wedding is a personal, intimate occasion and just because you and this girl buried the hatchet, doesn’t mean you have to include her. If you don’t have a personal relationship with someone, I don’t think they need an invitation to your day. It’s your sister’s friend, not yours. Your friends have plenty of other opportunites to see her. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    13015 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I personally am a firm believer in inviting only people who you want there.  If the person is going ot detract from your day, then don’t invite her.  If the drama is going to detract from the day, maybe you should.  Although, as FutureMrsCookie says, you should ask your sister what she thinks.  Be honest about how you aren’t friends with her and dont’ feel comfortable with her there, but are willing to consider her side of the argument to inviting her. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    7431 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    NOrmally I would say not to invite her, but since she is so close with your sisters, I think I would just to not cause drama. I know you don’t want her there, but at least you won’t have to deal with negative comments from your sisters, and hopefully she won’t even get a chance to talk to you on your wedding day, so you won’t have to deal with her negativity either

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