(Closed) Should I invite her or not?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Are you paying her to do your hair? Or is she doing it for free? if she is doing it for free or giving you a “deal” I would say it would be nice to invite her

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Have you seen her since high school? Hung out socially in the last year? If not, I’d say no. You’re entering into a business contract with her, I wouldn’t feel obligated to invite her.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

I agree with the PP, if you guys really haven’t kept in touch & you’re not really getting any special deals then your really not obligated to. However, I personally probably would.

Post # 6
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987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

@bells: I agree.  If she’s doing you a favour, then it’s nice to invite her.  If not, you don’t have to.

Post # 8
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1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

damn $155…. no i would not invite. she’s not cutting you a deal at all.

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would invite her, I would feel totally awkward if I didn’t.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

If she weren’t doing your hair and make up, would you invite her?

She’s providing a service for you, not doing you a friendly favour where you might want to return the favour. 

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I prob wouldn’t…But then again, I prob wouldn’t have her do my hair either, unless she was my regular hairdresser, to avoid the awkwardness.

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