(Closed) Should I invite her?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I invite her?
    Yes, invite her. : (5 votes)
    28 %
    Absolutely not, don't invite her. : (13 votes)
    72 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1103 posts
    Bumble bee

    You say she’s a relative, but can you be more specific? Is she a cousin whose siblings and parents are going to be invited? If the answer is yes then I would probably say you should invite her (trust me, you won’t have time to worry about her on the day). If she’s a more distant cousin and you’re not inviting anyone else at that level of closeness, then I think it’s safer to not invite her! Sounds really tricky to me, good luck!

    Post # 5
    Member
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    she didnt even invite you to her wedding, she deleted you off the social network site..  and now she is trying to join your bridesmaids? why are you even wasting time worrying about her. i wouldnt even invite her to be honest, because i dont want her showing up and acting like she is one of the bridesmaids.. otherwise i would invite her n politely [but firmly] tell her that cannot wear the same color as the maids

    Post # 7
    Member
    1465 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I wouldn’t invite her. She has no respect for you (and is not afraid to say it with the various comments and actions she has made) so you are not obligated in any way to invite her. The fact that she is related to you also does obligate you to invite her.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I agree that she is probably going to cause you more stress if you invite her.  She doesn’t seem to have any respect for you – why would she ask to be bridesmaid (or a pseudo-BM in a similar dress!) and later go on to ignore you and delete you off her friends list?  Strange…I would not invite her so you don’t have to worry about her being distracting or causing drama at your wedding.  

    Post # 9
    Member
    101 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    There’s a couple things that put me in the “yes, invite her” group.

    1) You invited all the cousins of the same level… you kind of have to unless you really want to close the door on ever having any type of relationship with her again.

    2) I’m of the mind that you should always take the hig road. Yes, she’s kind of being a crazy Biotch, but that doesn’t mean you should be one back. If you invite her, and she doesn’t come, it’s her regrets. If you don’t invite her, you’ll probably feel baad later.

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