(Closed) Should I invite my cousin’s baby daddy’s other daughter?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

If your wedding falls on a day that they have her I say definitely YES you can not leave a kid out of a family. She is part of their family.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Personally? I wouldn’t.  If you had the room I would say go ahead but having to cut a friend for someone you didn’t even know existed? I wouldn’t do it.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would invite her; she’s 5 years old…  check with your venue, but kids are often counted differently.

Since your cousin is making an effort to include her; then you’ll come come across as more gracious and accepting if you do too.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If she lives with the cousin and baby-daddy, I think you have to. I would so hate to be that girl if you didn’t.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I would invite the child if she lives with her Dad. If she doesn’t, then she’s not really part of the household and you do not need to invite her.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Have you sent out invites to them yet. I was in a similar situation, though I had room to spare and he had his kid half the time. I just put my cousin and her boyfriends name and “family” on the invite. In my case the mother had him that weekend.

Chances are they wouldn’t bring her, especially since the mother has her most of the time and you can’t get blamed for not “inviting” her. However, you not knowing about her “technically” could probably get you a pass.

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