Post # 1
For reference, here’s the link to my post about what happened and why she’s no longer a bridesmaid.
So I replaced a bridesmaid today.
I’m getting my save the dates ready and I’m just not sure whether or not I want to still invite her to the wedding. Fiancé says no, mom says yes. She made it pretty clear that she was done with the friendship, but I haven’t spoken to her since and I suppose it’s possible she’s calmed down by now. I really do miss her from time to time, and I wish the best for her, but would it be weird to invite her after our last conversation?
Post # 3
I wouldn’t invite here, there’s no need to add stress and drama. It seems like she’s done being friends, and if she has cooled down she should reach out to you. Inviting her could be a way to try to repair your friendship, but I’m not sure I’d want to be friends with someone who treated me that way. Good luck!
Post # 4
- Wedding: March 2014 - Brazil Room
You need to add to the poll “not in a million years” because that would be my answer.
Post # 5
I voted yes….but hear me out. If this “friend” is one who you have known since first grade, then you have probably had a few fights in your day. Her behavior is obv. unacceptable and no one would think less of you for not inviting her! But, to be the bigger person, you should invite her and let her decide if she is going to rise to the occasion, and hopefully apologize. If you don’t invite her then your friendship has been truly extinguished, and although drama and bitterness may be risks with a person like her, you may want to risk it to avoid the regret you may have if she is not there for you on your big day!
Post # 6
@MissWitty: That’s kinda what I was thinking. There’s always drama with her, but I feel like I should be the bigger person and reach out to her. My mom thinks that she’s gonna get over her little hissy fit and that we’ll end up being ok again, but after he outburst, it’s really hard for me to believe that.