Post # 1
I have only met her once and we didn’t really speak then! But they are currently living together..
We are only having a small wedding of 60 including us and the wedding party.
I am not close to him and am only inviting him because he is my grandfather…
Is it okay to miss her off?
Post # 3
I would invite her. If you didn’t, your Grandfather’s feelings may be hurt, and hers also.
Post # 4
I would invite her. It’s your grandfather; if you’re inviting him out of respect, you’d kind of undue that respect by not inviting her.
Post # 5
yep, definitely agree with above. i think once they are living together it’s an automatic plus one unless you are doing something really really limited where there is a big space issue or something like that.
Post # 6
It’s awkward when you don’t know dates but I think it’s necessary to invite her.
Post # 7
I would invite her b/c they are in a serious relationship. It’s kinda the same as any other plus 1’s. It would probably be a little different if they just started seeing each other, but since they are living together it’s pretty significant
Post # 8
Thanks everyone. Guess she is going on the guest list! (:
Post # 9
If you can afford it, then do. She’ll probably really appreciate the gesture, as will your grandad.
>> Also, can your grandad have a word with my mum and teach her how to get out there and find someone please?!
Post # 10
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
Yes- even though you’re not close to him, as an honored guest (due to his family status), I really feel he should be granted a guest, ESP. since they live together.
Post # 11
@ticatica haha my family don’t need any encouragement. My grandad, mum AND dad all have new partners xD
Thanks for the advice
Post # 12
@rebwana: yes, this exactly!