Post # 17
+1000 I totally agree with this. Meet her beforehand and see if she can be civilized and get a feel for how things are with her. You’ve had a lot of years between the two of you to hopefully move on from what has happened in the past, but this isn’t always the case and you definitely need to know. Have her even skype with you if a regular meet isn’t easy to do.
Post # 18
You need a Maybe (explain) option on your poll 🙂