(Closed) Should I invite someone I don't want to invite but used to be friends with?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m going to say what my Fiance told me. Invite who you want to come to your wedding. Especially because you are having a small wedding.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m also having around 50 guests and we are not inviting ANYone that we don’t genuinely want to be there. We really want to be surrounded by our closest friends & family and I am not really a fan of inviting people just for the sake of inviting them. Why does it matter that other people think you are close? I’d only invite her if you really want her in attendance.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

@MrsBtoBe14:  Dude, its YOUR wedding, not your friends.  I understand about upsetting people about the guest list, but its time to leave behind high school drama.  First of all, they don’t need to know who is and isn’t invited.  Not their concern.  IF they ask about this one girl, explain to them that, unfortunately, you are not close enough to her anymore that would suffice an invitation and therefore no, she is not invited.  If they can’t respect that, well, if you’re ready to grow up and get out of drama, I think you need to re-think those friendships.

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