Post # 1
okay so my question is theres this girl i was friends with who actually she was my friend friend and we would all hang out I think me and her only hung out once alone. But she would come to my birthday and i would go to hers but then she moved away, And i did call her to tell her i was engaged and she wa svery happy for me okay that was jan and its now aug not once has she asked me about my wedding, I don’t talk to her at all, I even would email her to see how she was doing and not once has she mentioned my wedding. So my question is should i invite her? I’m just worried that she might get her feelings hurt cause i didn’t invite her. I mean whn she lived here we were friends but I guess more friends through association but i would definatlly call her a friend at the time she lived here.
Post # 3
I say save those guest spots for people that you couldn’t imagine not being at your wedding. It sounds like you have had some friendly run-ins with this girl, but is it really enough to invite her to your wedding? I’m sure there are other people you’d rather invite. And if you’re like most brides, the budget isn’t endless. Don’t just invite people to fill up the guest list.
Post # 4
If you’ve got the room, I’d invite her. She might not be mentioning the wedding because she also doesnt where you two stand and she doesn’t want to assume shes invited etc.
Post # 5
Well how desperate are you for space? If this isn’t that big of a deal, I’d invite her to be on the safe side. Sounds like she might not bother coming, anyway….
But if you really need the space, then I wouldn’t sweat it too much.
Post # 6
I would say that it doesn’t sound like you two are that close anymore. If the only reason you would invite her is because you are worried about her feelings, then I don’t think I would invite her.
Post # 7
actually i’m already at my max for space……but i was just thinking like if someone couldn’t come…….I definatlly wouln’t invite someone just to fill space.
Post # 8
Since you don’t have the room I say don’t worry about it. Keep the guest list to people you could not imagine being without on your big day.