(Closed) Should I invite..?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

Totally cross that name off your guest list.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wouldn’t invite him. I really would not care at all if it made me “look like a dick”.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I don’t think you’d look like a dick at all for not inviting him – I think he is the only one looking like a dick.  I would absolutely, positively NOT invite him.

Post # 5
Hostess
23597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Don’t invite him.  It’s going to be your wedding day, the last thing you want is to be unhappy because he’s there.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Don’t invite him.  He hasn’t shown any inkling of wanting a good relationship with you, so why even show him a inkling of a courtesy invite?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m sorry but a wedding is supposed to celebrate family and include guests who are supportive of the couple. This man is not supportive of your family and has no business being there. Cross him off immediately. 

Post # 7
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Absolutely no!! Invite people that care about and love you and who share in your life, not people that have harmed (or tried to harm) your family. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

OH HELL NO… if anyone in my family did that to me… they would not only be cut from my wedding but cut from my LIFE…

I wouldnt invite him and if anyone asks, I would tell them honestly what he did.

Obviously not a topic to discuss at the wedding, but maybe beforehand so people arent surprised when he isn’t there.

Post # 11
Hostess
23597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsNeutrino: Listen to her! Smart cookie.  *HUGS* though.  From an outsider’s perspective, it’s an easy decision, but hopefully you make the choice that works best for you.

Post # 13
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5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

But I might still look like a DIck. lol what would you bees do?

This man told you to abort your now-daughter, and is now trying to get custody for your Ex? Yowza.

The people who attend your wedding should be those who love and support you and are excited for you. He is none of those things. Cut him and forget him. I think you’ll be much happier if he’s not there either.

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