Should I just let this one go?

posted 4 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 31
27 posts
  • Wedding: June 2020

I honestly think the trash took itself out tbh and if he is already acting a way you dont like I can already see it being a problem down the line. I also don’t think you two were a good compatibility solely based on the fact that he spoke over you. (I might be petty but that is one of the MOST rude things you could do to someone lol) 

Post # 32
937 posts
Busy bee

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Two things:

1) In my humble opinion, good manners and consideration are the very bedrock of a healthy, adult relationship, so if someone behaves badly, rudely, obnoxiously, you have every right to call them out and open up a dialogue about it. The way someone responds to such a conversation will tell you a lot about them.

2) If you do notice this bad behaviour and call it out (see point 1 above) and the person does not take it well, it is not them rejecting you. It is your internal guidance system working properly and telling you that this behaviour is not good enough for you. Him ghosting you or fading out is simply his communication style – it simply shows the difference in maturity and incompatibility between the two of you. It’s not a rejection.

Post # 33
384 posts
Helper bee

Move on… for every reason referenced in your post… 

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