(Closed) Should I just suck it up and ask?

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Helper bee

I would say you should absolutely ask! You never know, some of them might have been thinking the same thing but thought you wanted to be on your own.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ask your bridesmaids!! Even if at least one stays with you then you wont be alone! Im sure at least one of them will stay with you!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think you should ask. They’re your bridesmaids because you love them and they love you, so ask. It could be a lot of fun.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Most definitely ask. That is what I am planning on doing and I have already told them. If they don’t all want to stay…it’s fine, but I don’t want to be alone either.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Let them know it’s an option! It could be fun! I’m sure they are assuming they’re staying in their own places because, seriously, why would they pay for a hotel room when they have a free room? But if you’re already in a hotel room, you could see if any of them want to stay with you.

But, really, you could enjoy a nice relaxing evening by yourself in the hotel room. Bring a book, take a hot bubble bath, have a glass of wine downstairs in the hotel lobby and people watch…

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Im sure they would leave the boyfriends to spend a night with the to-be bride! Especially the night before the wedding!!! 🙂

Post # 9
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Helper bee

Absolutely! Everyone loves a girls’ night sleepover!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Can’t hurt to ask, the worst they could say is no.  Besides, I think spending the evening by yourself relaxing and doing whatever you want, thinking about the day ahead sounds nice.  Take a long bubble bath, stay in a comfy robe, read a book or indulge and rent your favorite movie, order a nice room dinner.  Frankly, being by oneself enures that you will get restful nights sleep (who knows one of your bridesmaids may have a terrible snoring issue).Wink

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

If you want it ask!!! simple as that.

I asked my sisters and my mom to stay with me…one was a little reluctant to do so as her significant other was in town but she ended up staying and had so much fun!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Definitely ask…even if they all don’t stay..one or two may. If none of them want to stay, maybe ask your sisters (if you have them) or close relatives to stay. You guys can stay up a reminisce about old times, or favorite memories.

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yeah ask them! Maybe you can play some games or watch a chick flick!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ask them!  Girls’ night in a hotel room before the wedding = awesome! 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

Yes, you should totally ask them!  My gals are staying with me the night before and I’m really looking forward to spending that time with them.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ask them! It sounds like fun!

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