Post # 46
I agree that you are pretty much stuck with her as Maid/Matron of Honor. Just ignore her and have the best wedding planning experience with the wonderful friends you have at your side. Do the bare minimum for her because…..well, just do as her Maid/Matron of Honor exactly what she has done as yours. Not a damn thing! Easy!!!!
But as a bit of payback, I would “forget” to mention her as MATRON of honor. She won’t technically be a Matron of honor till 3 weeks before your wedding and by then you’ll already have the programs printed and ready to go…..right??? I would go as far as not even mentioning her as a Maid of Honor. I would do a general “Bridesmaids” and list her there with the rest of the girls. You can call it a misprint if you will.
You might as well have some fun with it….. Just saying! 😂😂
Post # 47
I’d also accidentally forget to put her as “matron” of honor in the programs. But I’m passive agressive like that.
Post # 48
I understand she is your sister but it doesn’t seem like she feels guilty about all the things and ways she is hurting you. You have allowed her to treat you this way and you are the only one who can stop it. This is your’s and your fiance’s day so you guys need to think about yourselves and your happiness and let go of the toxic people who are raining on you parade. If she is acting like this now I can only imagine how she will be acting on your big day. This time and moving foward you need to put yourself first. I hope this helped you and I hope your wedding planning experience gets better from now on.