(Closed) Should I kick my bridesmaid out of my wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll:
  • Post # 2
    Member
    124 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    You might want to first give her a chance to straighten up before kicking her out, considering she has already purchased the dress. Tell her that you have enough stress to deal with and that you really cannot handle her extra crap right now. Maybe get someone else as a back up who can buy a dress if necessary. But why have someone involved with this day in your life if they’re just going to make you miserable?

    Post # 3
    Member
    48 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    If she already bought the dress I would pay her back for it if you kick her out.  I think that’s only fair.  However, maybe try talking to her first?  If you kick her out i can pretty much guarantee you’ll lose her friendship, so think hard about if that’s what you really want to do.

    Post # 4
    Member
    159 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: TBD

    Just be straight with her. Confront her on how she’s been acting and say that you don’t need this kind of behaviour towards you and your family and you definitely don’t need it during one of the happiest times of your life. It’s unnecessary stress. And that’s completely uncalled for, making your sister cry.

    Post # 5
    Member
    9580 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Yes I would. Offer to reimburse for the dress.

    The topic ‘Should I kick my bridesmaid out of my wedding?’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors