(Closed) Should I kick out my Bridesmaid?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 61
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2035 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I can’t.  With every update it sounds like you haven’t made up your mind on what to do.  This ain’t rocket science bee.  Drop this chick like the bad habit that she is.

Post # 62
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451 posts
Helper bee

Is this for real? 

Post # 63
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467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

This is so insane. OP, please come back and tell us how this goes. Will the other bridal party members actually pay? Will she even have a wedding if this close out it is not paid for? Part of me hopes you do NOT go because she has made you her doormat, but part of me wants you to come back here after her wedding and tell us all about it…

Post # 64
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358 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

This is nuts on so many levels. Her debt that’s a secret, her expecting y’all to just hand over your money to pay for her wedding… wow. Good luck, I hope you get this leech out of your life.

Update? 

Post # 65
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147 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

DO NOT pay for the food for her wedding – THAT IS NOT A BRIDESMAID TASK. None of you should pay and none of the groomsmen should get alcohol. Don’t let them get away with this tacky arrogant entitled bratty behavior.

Post # 66
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295 posts
Helper bee

I can’t imagine that this bridezilla’s other BMs are too happy with the situation either. They’re probably also too afraid or uncertain to say something. I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that there might be some extremely compelling reason why you are letting her take advantage of you – maybe she is about to find a cure for Alzheimer’s or something – but I suspect she is simply a terrible human being who manipulates those around her because she has gotten away with it so far.

Also, it was casually mentioned that she went to court for suspected child abuse and that’s why she couldn’t earn any money; even if she is totally innocent as you say, I’m really curious about the story behind that because that’s not a light accusation to make.

Post # 67
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1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Hell to the power of no times infinity. “She lost her damn mind” was three stations back. 

This is laughable. You are supposed to pay for her wedding and she can’t try on a dress. Haven’t told someone on this site “no” this hard outside of the Waiting boards. Even then. So much no. All the no. If you could pay your bills with no you could retire to Hong Kong. 

When people need this much help- car bills, groceries, etc. there is usually a reason. Notice how she is maxing out her cards to pay for a party, but not to buy groceries or Hertz. It is almost never the case that someone honest needs this much help. Even if she couldn’t work as a nanny I very seriously doubt that she was barred from all employment. 

Post # 68
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1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Oh, I forgot to actually say: kick her, disinvite her, and drop out of her wedding. 

Post # 69
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940 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Is this a joke? I must have missed the part about why you consider this mooch your friend.

Post # 70
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989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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sunberry928 :  hahahahahaha NO. They can’t push it on you if you don’t let them. Learn to say no.

Post # 71
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773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

Is she out yet? All forms of contact blocked? Her bouquet and makeup appointments canceled? Dress sold or ripped to shreds?

Post # 73
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1253 posts
Bumble bee

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sunberry928 :  just text her… I feel like you’re looking for a reason to not quit. I don’t get it. 

Post # 74
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940 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Okay, between the lack of posting history and lack of response to comments about why you even consider this person a friend, I no longer believe this story is real.

If she refuses to talk to you and just demands money, you can always cut off contact entirely.

Post # 75
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773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

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sunberry928 :  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA what even

Well if she doesn’t have time for you, you don’t have time for her

The dark side is tempting me greatly. LITERALLY JUST DON’T BOTHER SHOWING UP. Make a huge statement with your unexplained absence. Leaving her out in the cold. You tried. She’s a bitch. Just do not go to anything anymore.

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