(Closed) Should I let this one go??? Help, need a quick yes/no!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Is he like that all the time? That sounds like my FH ALLLLL the time. I just let it go now.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would let it go to the extent that obviously it was just stress at the moment.  However, I think when y’all go to counseling next week that it might be a good time to bring up communication during stressful/fustrating times. 

-Good Luck!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Pick your battles wisely.  Personally, I would let it go. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would let it go, and then possibly bring it up at counseling. Fixing things can get extremely frustrating, and things can be said that are not meant!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I think it depends if this is normal. If you let it go, he won’t know that it’s not ok to do again.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m glad ya’ll kissed at made up.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t really have the capacity to let things like that go.  The part that would bother me most is how he spoke to you.  My Fiance sometimes says things that are mean (don’t we all?) and I DO NOT let him get away with it.  I usually have to take some time to cool off and we sit down and talk about it, then it gets resolved. 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m glad you guys resolved it, my boyfriend knows to leave me the heck alone when I have my head under the sink because I get so cranky trying to fix things!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Yay for progress! 🙂

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@nature_girl: Great communication guys! Ive found that if Fiance and I can reconginze when we are or were acting out of line we can use it to prevent future occurances.  

If he hadnt come back like he did I would have let it go. and discussed in counseling. and figured out a better strategy for communicating when one of both of you is under stress or frustrated.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Awwwww, so glad you two kissed and made up!  I have finally learned, after years of letting my temper run loose, to pick and choose my battles wisely.  Sometimes it’s just not worth it to argue.  Enjoy his birthday celebration!

 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

making up quickly is the best 🙂

Post # 16
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Helper bee

I would just let it go. Fiance does this to me too sometimes, and I use all my humanly power not to throw a tantrum. On the plus side be happy he is trying to fix it. I am sure there are a lot of Bees out there would be happy to have this issue, if their FI’s don’t even bother.

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