Should I pay for somebody else to do her hair?

posted 3 years ago in Beauty
Post # 2
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1051 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

futuremrss17 :  I don’t think you need to offer to pay. If you’re paying, you should be able to choose who the stylist is for the exact reason you already brought up. You know your budget and your stylist fits your needs. 

Post # 3
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22 posts
Newbee

futuremrss17 :  No, I really don’t think she has any expectation you’ll pay, given that she already made this appointment for herself and stepdaughter before having any idea that you might be willing to pay for hair. Offering your stylist is the most you need to do! I can see her preferring to pay and go to a stylist she trusts than take a chance with yours.

Post # 4
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1378 posts
Bumble bee

Nope. If she wants it paid for she should use your stylist.

Post # 6
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3332 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Agree with PPs – if she wants it free she can use your girl.

Post # 7
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2019 posts
Buzzing bee

No. You don’t have to pay for her to go somewhere else. You asked everyone get their hair done by your stylist, and said you would pay for it. If someone isn’t getting their hair done by your stylist, you don’t have to pay for it. 

I would find out of the little girls could have their hair done at your salon, that way everyone could be together.

Post # 8
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159 posts
Blushing bee

I would just leave it 🙂 

Post # 9
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88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

No, she made a separate appointment and should pay for it herself. As you said, you have no idea what the cost is! It’s very nice of you to pay for all your bridesmaids and extended family.

I think you’re worrying over nothing – she certainly doesn’t seem to expect you to pay for her. 

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