(Closed) Should I persuade SO to take the plunge sooner rather than later?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

I think I’d just feel a whole lot happier emigrating if I had a ring on my finger.

 

Every relationship is different, and every man would react in his own way to being given a “nudge.” Personally, I would not want to make a big geographic change in my life to be with a man without having some sort of solid, specific commitment in place such as a ring or a wedding date set.

If this will truly bother you, then let him know you need a commitment. If he really loves you and wants to keep you in his life, he will make it happen.

My Darling Husband would have been comfortable with putting the wedding off until about six months after we moved in together. When I told him I was not OK with waiting, he didn’t blink an eye and we were married at the same time we moved in together. It is all good.

I hope things work out for you!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Andr0meda: I agree, that’s a huge committment for you to make without getting married. He should understand your discomfort.

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