(Closed) should I respond?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 32
9478 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with PPs that have said to response saying “Thanks for letting us know!”.

Post # 33
332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You didn’t do anything wrong and if she’s really not your or your FI’s friend she isn’t doing anything wrong about not coming either. You don’t know her circumstances and she may not have much time with him and doesn’t want to miss out on it. I’d just text her and say something like thanks for letting me know and sorry you won’t be able to make it.  

Post # 34
374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You should respond. with a message like “aww that’s unfortunate, we would’ve enjoyed having you there.”

You did nothing wrong.

It probably is a bit childish, but I can see it from her point of view because she probably told her SO about the wedding then finding out she can’t bring him along will probably make her feel weird if she goes anyway :/

But you guys shouldn’t be hurt if she doesn’t want to come then she doesn’t want to come plus you said she really wasn’t your friend.

Post # 35
11266 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

that’s sounds incredibly immature.  let it go and be thankful she won’t be at your wedding now.

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