(Closed) Should I show this to him?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@WhiteLotus:  I would mention it to him, hey look what I found… and it’s a better price. The cost may have been the reason he didn’t bid on the last one! So it can’t hurt to show it to him… but then the ball is in his court, unfortunately, and it’ll be up to him if he gets it!! Ahh, the waiting!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Definitely show him.  I saw the ring I loved on sale for one more day, told Fiance about it, and he bought it that day 🙂  I mean it’s nice to be surprised, but it’s also nice for him to get a great deal on a ring he knows you’ll love.  I stilll waited another 8 months for the proposal too…so it’s not like it was pressuring him into proposing right away.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

I would show it to him.  At least if he doesn’t buy it he will  know exactly what you want.  We are the ones who have to look at it every single day so we should get exactly what we want in a ring.  When my guy and I first met I knew right away I was going to get married to him.  We were perfect for each other.  I went online and found my perfect ring and emailed him the picture, the size, and a note that said “because we both know you’ll need this information in a year or two and I want to be surprised”.  I didn’t think he got the email until I overheard him talking to his mom about it on the phone six months later.  I think it is important that you are happy with your ring.

Also don’t worry about the price.  If the ring is beautiful it is beautiful.  And if you feel like you want something he cannot afford right now maybe you can receive it for an anniversary gift when he has the money.

A beautiful ring is a beautiful ring.  No matter how much it costs!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@WhiteLotus:  I sort of “made” my SO give me a timeline, and once I started looking at rings, I found one on etsy that I LOVED. It was an antique, so it was either get it or possibly lose it! I had to show it to him… it was a great deal and I loved it! So he “bought” it– or at least put money down on it… but I still don’t know when I’m going to get it! Waiting is killing me….so in no way am I pressuring.. it’s been 4 months, and there’s 5 months left on the timeline…

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper

I’d show him! He seems pretty open about the whole process so why not.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

Good deal 🙂

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
Post # 15
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Sugar bee

@WhiteLotus:  That’s so funny you say Bi-polar ring shopper LOL I think I’m worse than you Smile

I would definitely show it to him. The price of the ring does not matter as long as it is within budget and you LOVE it! Just because another ring costs more it does not mean it’s any better quality. I’ve found super deals on Ebay of good quality. Plus the seller offers a 7 day return policy so if you find it’s of cheaper quality you can always return it. What do you have to lose especially since he has been open about your ring chosing. 

By The Way I think that ring is so pretty 

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1998

Show him

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