(Closed) Should I snoop?!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
7429 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

DON”T DO IT!!! I’m not sure how your Fiance is, but if I did something like this, I know my husband woudl be pissed and hurt that I was “checking up on him”. Its not about ruining the surprise, its about respecting your FIs decision of when and how to propose to you

Post # 4
375 posts
Helper bee

I vote no–either way it could end badly. Either you find out that he has, and he finds out because something slips out or you find out he hasn’t yet and you start your vacation disappointed.

As a self-confessed snoop, myself, (and he knows this about me, we joke about it often) I suggest taking deep breaths and enjoying your vacation. Hope for the best but don’t count on it, just in case.

Post # 5
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

DON’T DO IT!  The surprise will be so worth the wait!  I was COMPLETELY surprised when my Fiance proposed (so much so that I told him to get up and stop bullshitting me!) and I wouldn’t trade that feeling for anything in the world. 

Post # 6
5422 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

I say no.  But I snooped so I’m a bad example.  It’s so hard not too.

Post # 7
48 posts

NO!!!  As a former snooper, I can tell you that you’ll be very disappointed if the form is still there.  Don’t do it.  I had to stop snooping every time my hopes were up because it hurts too much to be let down like that.. 

Post # 8
3312 posts
Sugar bee

don’t do it- because even if the form isn’t there—- assuming he has the ring just isn’t good for either of you- go on your trips and have fun and of course, try not to get your hopes up. you don’t want to ruin the trip

Post # 9
1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have to agree with everyone else…and DON’T DO IT!!!  Stay strong!! It will happen!  Have a great time on your cruise!









Post # 11
1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

No- dont snoop because if he does have it for you, you will ruin it for yourself and for him. Please for your sake dont…

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