- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I’ve never been in a wedding, so I’m a little clueless with the whole Bridesmaid or Best Man gift thing. I have my Maid/Matron of Honor and 2 BMs. My Maid/Matron of Honor and 1 Bridesmaid or Best Man are throwing my shower and will be a lot of help in the weeks leading up to my wedding. The other Bridesmaid or Best Man lives across the country and will only be present the weekend of the wedding, which I’m totally ok with (she’s in school plus working full time). My only concern is I want to get larger gifts for the other Bridesmaid or Best Man and my Maid/Matron of Honor since they will spend so much money and time on this wedding and my shower. Is this a bad idea? Should I give my Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man a gift after the shower when the other Bridesmaid or Best Man won’t be there, and then give them all the same thing at the rehearsal dinner?