- 6 years ago
In a way, I have always sort have had a thing against her I guess. We have know each other on and off half of our lives. She regales times of parties in high school and sort of expects me to remember being there. I wasn’t. I worked almost 40 hours a week and went to school. Now after the parties was another story. I would go after work and “save ass” taking her and other people home. At first out of concern, later it seemed out of obligation. Oddly, the past with her around drinking is huge reason her drinking with my husband on my wedding day was upsetting. I spent a lot of f’ing time cleaning up her drunk mess in my younger years.
There really is no way for me to find out what is going on inside their place of employment (god, I had to say their speaking of them). He doesn’t hang out with anyone from there or has made any friends that I would even know of. If it is a thing their closer “friendship” is starting to bleed over from work. He doesn’t carry a cell phone. No social networking sites. He plays an online game from time to time in which he really makes no friends because he is not a regular on the site.
Thinking about it long and hard. We really don’t talk about much of anything. I thought we had plans for a future, but you know how life can go. I make sure the bills get paid, he makes money. If we are going somewhere it is together. We used to spend a lot more time together, until we started this job a little while back. I am just rambling… thank you for being an ear.