(Closed) Should I stay and should she go?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Forwhomthebelltolls:  

Why do you feel the need to save others who treat you badly? I used to do the same, until I realized that I deserved better and ended friendships with people who sucked me dry. This situation is partly a result of your low self esteem. I understand exactly how that feels and that is why I can recognize low self esteem in someone else. 

Only you can make changes in your life. I hope that you realize your worth and refuse to take crap from others. It sounds like your boundaries are weak and others take advantage of that. 

I know I may sound harsh and that is not my intent. I’m just trying to get you to see that you deserve to be respected just like anyone else. 

If my husband was being very disrespectful and disregarding everything I said, I would ask for a separation. I would also tell my husband that unless he treated me like an equal and ended the friendship with someone who wants him, I would file for divorce. Sometimes people need a shock in order to realize that their behavior is unacceptable. Your husband knows that put others ahead of yourself all the time, so he feels secure enough to treat you like a dumb kid. 

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